What makes a good lover? If you're a man reading this, you've undoubtedly asked yourself these questionsbut you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now. Deida explores the most important issues in men's lives--from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality--to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom.
Based on questions from women who have attended author David Deida's highly acclaimed relationships seminars, this must-have book puts male behavior under the microscope. Included are chapters on sex, work, relationships and communication.
Interspersed throughout are sidebars that shed light on the many faces of men and help women grasp. You are deeper than your life shows, and you know it. You are more loving than your relationships allow, more brilliant than your career suggests. In your secret depth of being, you are infinite, creative, boundless and utterly unable to press your full glory into the world.
Or so it. To truly understand your intimate relationships, you must read this book! David Deida, internationally known for his work in personal growth and intimate relationships, shares the deep understandings and effective techniques that he has refined through his 20 years of consultation, research and spiritual practice.
Learn how to keep your relationships. In Dear Lover: A Woman's Guide to Men, Sex, and Love's Deepest Bliss, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment.
Written as a collection of letters from a man to his ''dear. For more than thirty years, Paul Yee has written about his Chinese-Canadian heritage in award-winning books for young readers as well as adult non-fiction.
Here, in his first work of fiction for adults, he takes us on a harrowing journey into a milestone event of Canadian history: the use of. If you're a man reading this, you've undoubtedly asked yourself these questions - but you may not have had much luck answering them. I used to ejaculate less because I made it more about her. Nice Guy. Otherwise ravishing and coming and are not mutually exclusive of course-.
Deida exhorts the readers to do their best in life, to go after their grand vision, and to be intolerant of mediocrity. Men should have friends who do the same and who help and push each other. With love and caring, our friends should hold us to our highest standards and nudge us towards facing our fears and pushing our limits.
It rarely works that way. Your life is now, now is the time to be happy. Ad David Deida says: every moment waited is a moment wasted. Every moment waited is a moment wasted. Deida writes:. There are many ways to creatively deal with her moods and help her to open. Tickle her. Take off your clothes and dance the watusi. Sing opera for her. Make animal sounds. Shout at her louder than you ever have and then kiss her passionately.
Press your belly into her until she melts. Lift her off the ground and spin her around. Occasionally, talking with her helps, but not as often as humor and physically expressed love. The author says that the woman who most turns you on sexually will turn you off for the rest of your life. But based on what? I wonder if the same could not be said of men collecting cars and footballers stickers -just to stick with gender stereotypes-.
But in my opinion, they get lost, and not amplified, by the rhetorical embroidery. Here is an example:. Her gift, if she is a good woman, is to test you with her darkest moods, over and over and over, until your consciousness is unperturbed by feminine challenge, and you are able to pervade her with your love, just as you are here to pervade the world. In response to your fearless consciousness, she will drench your world in love and light. I think the content, teased out from the text, could actually be good.
If the author wished to keep it like that, which is OK because it does sound beautiful, would have at least added, after or before, the meaning in plain English. The vocal delivery in the audiobook felt corny. Reconnect With Your Dark Desire The part I liked the most was in the reconnection with our animalistic and darkest desire. I like information straight up, clear, concise, and accurate. Too convoluted, too many aesthetics and too gospel-sounding.
To convince me, one should say something that makes rational sense, that I personally experienced, that you personally experienced, or that is supported by evidence. I felt like it was a mumble jumbo of gender generalizations and watered down manosphere packaged in a cool sounding but information-poor new-agey format. Moving beyond the writing style I did like a lot of concepts and some of them are very profound and life-changing.
What I liked most is that Deida elevates animalistic, carnal desire to a Godly, sublime experience. That was awesome. A reconnection to our primal, darkest selves is a huge takeaway. You give it a try, and let me know what you think.
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